I was a total loser until I discovered the magical powers of NLP. I had a social phobia and terribly low self-esteem. Then, with NLP, I discovered I could accomplish anything I wanted to.
So I started a business. I had some successes and a lot of failures, to be frank with you. Then I thought to myself, “Well, there should be an easier way to attract wealth and abundance into my life”. I knew about visualizing and that kind of stuff but frankly, I’m not that good at visualizing. So was I designed to fail because I couldn’t visualize like all those gurus tell you to do?
I was determined to find another way; a simpler way; an automatic way. I didn’t buy into the get-rich-quick kind of thing and I was willing to learn about a method that could be a little more difficult to understand than visualizing, but that was easier to apply and could give me dramatic results.
I knew it was possible.
I did a lot of research and I made my first discovery: to attract wealth on the outside, you need to have a wealthy mind.
After a month of thinking about that, I asked myself “OK, but how? How do you get a wealthy mind?” I knew that visualizing was a part of it but not the whole truth.
Then after a lot of research I made my second discovery: the “Hallbourne Method”.
I studied this method, and I still study it, and there were three reasons why it works for me and it will work for you.
First of all it’s a realistic approach, because if it was just about visualizing and thinking about what you want, everybody would be rich, wouldn’t they?
Second, this approach was complete because it dealt with all the different aspects, layers and dimensions of the mind and not just one aspect.
Third, this approach was backed up by hundreds of years of research in the field of cognitive psychotherapy, cybernetics, systemic thinking and the self-reflexive consciousness, and also general semantics and the study of communication processes.
This approach had a lot of credibility and it was complete and dealt with all the dimensions of the mind.
There are 3 fundamentals and principles behind this Hallbourne Method.
1. The mind involves different layers, dimensions and levels and you have to deal with all these layers to get a wealthy mind.
2. These layers constantly exchange information-the highest levels with the lower levels and vice-versa.
3. The highest levels influence and control the information on the lower levels. So changing something at a highest level will necessarily change things at a lower level. So mastering the information (thoughts and emotions) at a higher level will influence the lower levels of thinking and the wealth creation process will become a cinch.
But you need to master these higher levels of the mind first. That’s how you get a wealthy mind, ultimately get the freedom that you really desire and attract more wealth and abundance into your life, automatically.
This wealth creation process reminds me of when I first started dating. I really wanted to be able to date and approach girls. I wanted to feel free to talk to any girl and laugh with her for hours. I just wanted to attract the kind of girls that were fun and that wanted to have fun, right?
But I didn’t think I could do it because I had a huge social phobia and terribly low self-esteem. I didn’t want to look ridiculous in front of my friends or girls for that matter. Plus, I wasn’t keen on spending hours with a psychologist, spending loads of money just to be told I was “unfixable.”
Anyway I took the plunge and went to a NLP psychotherapist. It was much easier than I thought. It took an hour to fix the problem and it only took me 2 or 3 days to have the courage to approach some girls I knew.
Wow! I was free, at last, to do whatever I wanted. I didn’t see things the same way and my self-confidence soared. And before I knew it, I was talking and laughing with a bunch of girls.
What’s great is from that moment on, I spent all my time with girls. I remember, at one point, realizing that I had 15 friends that were girls. It was easy to be around them and it was like I couldn’t stop attracting them.
And when I met my wife, she told me that she was attracted to me because I was so confident in myself.
I had no clue it would end like that. All I did was play some games with a NLP therapist for one hour. It was a lot of fun actually. I had absolutely no clue that a social phobia as bad as mine could be cured and help someone get the freedom they desired in just one hour, playing some fun games.
I guess my friends were amazed at the new me, seeing my transformation… and I didn’t look foolish at all.
But of course, it’s not important anymore to have girls around me because I married a beautiful lady that gives me all the freedom that I desire and that allows more abundance in my life.