The Emotional Abusing of the Children-The Problems of Child Labor

The children cannot bear the emotional torture as we the elders are facing. They are so tender that emotionally they have to labor for days, weeks and months to overcome the weak emotional bonds, which we, the parents or the elders try to maintain for them. This is a labor problem and abuse of child labor at the emotional level. It is rapidly lowering the level of E.Q., and the emotional maturity globally.

We may claim that we are mature, how we do not have the emotional maturity to understand that the breaking of the human bonds and the relations in any form have very adverse effect on the kids. We may force them to accept it. However, if we imagine it, no child can understand why the parents fight and quarrel, and for what we do all of it. The child lives in the present, we all know it, but we, the elders live in the past and future.

Thus, we force the kids to emotionally labor to reach to unknown past and or the future, which results in the emotional problems and lead to mental disorders. We consult the doctors, as we believe that we care for our kids.

However, we do not have time to bother about them as we assume that as hey grow they will learn and understand. Just imagine once again, if we could not learn form the time, how can they learn? Therefore, we are forcing them to labor emotionally to reach where we have failed.

It does not justify any excuse, whether we are in the east or the west. The children are the common property of the world, the global vision of the future, and we may cry for them, but what is our practical approach. We have emotional struggle, which the kids have to understand at the tender age.

This is one of the worst kinds of child labor. We may pause and think if we can make an effort. We give them the environment, which seems ideal in the behavior, but in the thought level we, the elders are suffering from so many problems that we are sacrificing the childhood.

The child may keep searching for motherly, fatherly, sisterly and brotherly feelings for whole of life. This is a child abuse and worse torture than the physical one, for which we all appeal globally. The child crying for love, affection and care is doing the labor at the emotional level.

Can we stop it? Indeed, we can if we care for the kids, we can. They are dependent on us emotionally, so the child abuse is more than a big problem as the results in the child abuse are more than in the child labor.

We have to think and feel it if we can comprehend the child abuse as the higher and bitter labor from the children globally, while we are searching new dimensions through medicines and pills to replace this emotional labor. Let us try to stop it. Thanks!